As much as I love seeing movies at the theatre, being a parent puts a serious cramp in the frequency in which one can actually get to a theatre. This isn’t a huge issue since I enjoy seeing a movie on my good ol’ 57-inch high def television, but there are certain movies where I really would like to get out to see.
For me, movies since Ally was born fell into two categories.
Must see in theatre
This is the rarest category now. Even though I have an affinity for independent and foreign films, I tend to not place those films in this category. The main criteria for this category are “Will this be a visual and aural treat?” where the experience of seeing it on a massive screen is simply irreproducible at home on a TV. This means certain summer/winter blockbusters, while brain dead in terms of plot and dialogue, is perfect for the movie theatre experience. You’re “shocked and awed” at the special effects and the thundering sound, allowing you to turn your brain off and simply enjoy the spectacle.
Another subset of movies I like to see are ones that qualify with the aforementioned criteria but also mean a little bit more to me. Whether it’s a book series I love (Harry Potter) or a trilogy event (Lord of the Rings) or simply a great movie (all the Bourne Identity films), I really like to see these in the theatre. When the new Indiana Jones movie comes out, I’ll be there. It will be the same with the new Batman (although it will be somewhat spooky to see a dead Heath Ledger play an extremely scary looking Joker).
Wait for DVD
The next category is where a lion’s share of my movie watching experience falls in. Usually I will read reviews of upcoming movies and place that title in my Netflix Queue. Out of sight and out of mind until it becomes available for rental. The great thing is Netflix, unlike Blockbuster, sends you the Director’s Cut (or unrated) version if there are multiple versions available. Widescreen is always the default option. Why ANYONE nowadays would watch a movie in “pan and scan” format is beyond me.
Since Katie was born, there’s an additional lower category created since our free time is even less. Now there are movies that I don’t even get to see once they’re out for a few months. At this point, they sometimes fall into the new ‘Wait for HBO’ category. Not all movies appear on this channel but every once in a while I’ll see one out there that has been languishing in my Netflix Queue forever. Once I’ve recorded and watched it, I can then take it off my Netflix list. This is happening now more than I’d like but at least I have that double backup option.
All in all, I’ll gladly trade seeing a movie when it first comes out in exchange for the two healthy and happy girls that I have now. With technology moving in the direction where most movies we see will be downloaded into our home anyway, my rankings above will be obsolete in a few years anyway.