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Posted by: James 7/27/2006 8:33 AM

Our townhome is positioned within the subdivision in a way that we are facing the rear of another set of townhomes at the end.  If you angle a large truck in our driveway, it then allows people to fit their cars past a truck.  Or, you can be like the idiot who parked this moving truck in front of our place and place it in the middle of the path where cars drive between the houses, effectively blocking off access to all 8 townhomes in that row.  Since they “only” had a few items to drop off, I didn’t say anything and hoped they would be done before anyone had to leave, since it was only 7 AM on a Saturday.

 

Unfortunately, one of our neighbors did have to leave for work and couldn’t get out.  Since the movers hadn’t started unloading anything yet (big surprise), I asked them if they could angle in the truck so my neighbor could get out.  Attitude Man gruffly said “They’ll just have to wait until we’re done.”  I replied “No, my neighbor has to get to work. All you have to do is back into our driveway and then cars can get by.”  When he refused, I said “Dude, don’t be a dick. Move the truck so my neighbor can GET TO WORK.”  He then proceeds to not say anything, shut the back door, and took off with no notice…AGAIN.

 

Now I’m starting to feel bad because here we had her stuff back again and now it’s gone again, this time because of something I did, even though my request wasn’t unreasonable (minus the “dick” comment).  So now we’re on a phone tag chase again with this unresponsive answering service.  She finally gets ahold of the guy again and the solution was agreed that none of us would talk to them.  When they arrive 3 hours later (who knows where they went), the head Attitude Man announces that not only would they only deliver the stuff to our front room and not where it belongs (including a very heavy 3-piece entertainment center), they would also not deliver any furniture to the 2nd floor of her house either.  This of course includes wonderfully heavy items such as master bedroom sets and the like.  At this point, all we want is the stuff dropped off so we grit our teeth and let them do their “work”.  I actually stayed in my basement with my daughter and 2 nieces so I could avoid any confrontation.

 

As they were finishing dumping all their stuff in the one room, Ally notices that they had tipped over the concrete bunny in the front, which caused her to have a fit since she loves that darn thing for whatever reason.  I take her outside so she could set it back up and as they were closing up the truck, I of course can’t help myself and say “So, that’s all 80 bucks is going to get me?  You can’t even move the furniture to the right rooms?”  Attitude Man turns to me and yells “That’s right, MOTHERFUCKER.”

 

I calmly proceed to bring Ally back inside and leave her with her cousins.  As I returned outside, they were in their truck supposedly getting ready to leave for my mom-in-law’s.  I walk up to the driver’s side door and Stupid Overprotective Dad Mode kicks in and I say to the guy “Don’t ever swear in front of my daughter like that again”.  This, of course, makes the guy turn ballistic.  He starts screaming “WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA DO, MOTHERFUCKER?  WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU GONNA DO?”  he goes on for about 30 seconds, I repeat what I said and he then proceeds to get out of the truck with the intent of pounding me into the ground.  While I would have fought someone like this 15 years ago when I was young, dumb, and full of cum, I now have to play it smart and walk away.  He’s screaming at me and trying to get me to fight him and I’m walking away back to the house and his coworkers are physically restraining him.  He also brushed my mom-in-law to the side when she tried to intervene. Remember that tidbit for later.

 

His coworkers finally get him back into the truck and they once again take off and aren’t heard from again.  This time my mom-in-law can’t get anyone to call back and now the damage has really been done.  Had I just stayed inside, this would all heave been avoided, but again, there’s still doubt that they ever would have delivered her stuff that day.  We call the police again and again they can’t help us.  The next few days I have a pit in my stomach as I am coming to the realization that we might have lost all her stuff for good.

 

As I’m commiserating about this on Monday to a coworker, she mentions that we should file an assault charge.  While they never touched me, they did push my mom-in-law to the side.  Any physical contact can constitute assault.  When we told the police this, all of a sudden they’re interested.  We all go down to file individual reports of the assault and now the truck officially contains stolen goods.  We still have no idea where the truck is but they can now arrest anyone who is driving it.

 

That Monday night, the owner calls back and claims he was out of town for the weekend and didn’t know what was going on.  We all know the truth is several police started investigating the situation and probably pressed on him to make things right.  He then said a different crew would come to her house the next day to drop everything off.  Again, we didn’t think that would happen since that Tuesday was July 4th.  But sure enough, they did come.  It was a different crew and they all were great workers and didn’t have an attitude.  We were all relieved to get her stuff back.

 

The only loose end that has me slightly concerned is the fact that the owner supposedly fired the guy who tried to fight me.  If that is truly the case, and if this guy is insanely violent like I suspect him to be, the fact remains he knows where we live.  It’s been 4 weeks now but I still think about it.  I doubt he was fired and we were just told that to make us feel better but you never know.  If I come up missing, refer to this day’s blog as evidence.

 

The Better Business Bureau has been notified but who knows what good that will do.  As least we have her stuff back.  You can replace furniture but you can’t replace photos and digital files.

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Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By KB's on 7/27/2006 10:28 AM
You need to save this story and tell it to the first boy that Ally introduces to her parents. You'll either be the coolest dad around or the kid will be afraid and you'll never see him again. Either way, you come out ahead.

Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By Deanna on 7/27/2006 11:45 AM
I don't even know what to say to that. What is wrong with people!?!? I'm glad that everyone os OK and that Megan's mom has her stuff!

Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By Muuurph on 7/27/2006 12:39 PM
Here's my take on the situation:

Attitude man probably doesn't really have a CDL and thus couldn't back the truck into your driveway if he wanted to, that's why he refused.

Trinity moving is a front for a drug cartel or the mob. Attitude man finally went too far in drawing police attention to the company. Now attitude man is sleeping with the fishes and will no longer be a problem for anyone.

BTW, our last move was so horrific that the wife and I have vowed to never move again. If we do move, it will involve hiring people to pack our stuff, move it and unpack it, all while we're vacationing in Hawaii for 10 days, oh and we'll leave our grown children in charge of things back home with instructions not to call us.

Our main problems were: The guy we bought the house from wasn't done moving his shite out and he refused to let our moving company unload the truck there because he was afraid stuff would get mixed up. I waited at our old house for the movers to come back to get our remaining items. I didn't go to the new house for the very Jamesian reason of not wanting to be charged with assaulting a senior citizen.
2) After they finally got to empty our truck at the new house, the movers got lost going back to the old house. The guy who knew the area fell asleep and the other guy proceeded to drive about 30 miles out of the way. Thus the 8 mile trip between the houses took over an hour, and for some reason the guys in the truck had no phone or radio.
3)Crazy pregnant wife of the couple that bought our house was having a hormonal episode and yelling at me to "Get your shit out of our house!". How she expected me to do this with no truck or help, I have no idea. Her husband was cool though, even moving some of our stuff out for us while I was yelling at the moving company on the phone.
4) We had so much crap (boys were 4 and 1 at the time) and we were delayed so that the movers were at our house unloading until 11. We paid them cash for the last 2 hours and I tipped them with a warm case of Busch that was left over from a party 2 years earlier (this really pissed off the guy that didn't drink but hey, I had no more $$$ on me).

Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By Ratt on 7/27/2006 2:47 PM
Man, everyone I know has had problems with a mover at some point, but your story tops them all. Hearing stuff like this makes me hesitant to move again, especially now that I have more stuff.

Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By JA3 on 7/27/2006 3:04 PM
Surprisingly enough, even after 2 long-distance moves (Chicago - Norfolk, Norfolk - Newport), we have no bad stories. I've always had great guys who worked hard, smiled about it, and didn't even bat an eye when I said "Carry this 200 lb TV to the third floor." Talk to me after the next move, (Japan?) though ...

I guess either the Navy hires better movers, or that the moving companies are smart enough to realize they're getting really good money from people who won't take any crap, so they don't send sh!theads. It probably helps that we firmly believe "It's just stuff" and there's no way you can move every few years without a few dents and scratches.

Re: Moving Nightmare - Part 2    By Milo on 7/27/2006 4:58 PM
Rule #1 don't get into Stupid Overprotective Dad mode unless you can back it up. I went into this mode just the other day, if you know me, you can rightly assume I can back it up, however, this prick drops his hands immediately and tells me to hit him. Overprotective dad mode overriden by overprotective asset mode. I now see lawyers at my door. Slinking back to my WIFE's minivan, I leave, shaking from the adrenaline rush. Boy was that fun.
Rule #2 - there is no rule #1 there is always someone that will trump you, physically or some other way.
You handled it as well as you could, better than I would have, but if you need help, remember what business I am in and contact me. We have non lethal stuff now also, that is fun to watch!


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